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writes: Has anyone ever been tired,like you just want to give up..for the past 4 months I'm under a lot of stress and worry,which is affecting my health..I'm a full time student and my course is taking over my life!I'm awaiting my results now,and I'm soo scared and nervous..my parents are expecting soo much from me,I'm just scared what if I fail,what if I don't make it..I know I'v got to stop being negative but I just can't..I'v put it in all my hardwork alll my time,all my strength,but I still feel it isn't enough!has anyone felt this hopeless in life?and u just want to give up? Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 January 2013): Hi I was a student and had been in your shoes. The stress got to me and the fear of failing. I broke down and cried and even said if I fail I am not going back. But I did not fail and my hard work paid off. Today I am qualified and working and reaping the benefits of being educated.So its not unusual what you feel and yes people fail a year but those that dont give up , eventually achieve what they want.No point stressing now, exams are over. Just make two plans: 1. If you pass what steps, 2 . If you fail what do want to do? Its not called being negatived its called preparing yourself for the reality.Also join a gym, it helps with reducing stress levels.
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reader, hellokittyfan12 +, writes (10 January 2013):
Yes I can relate to you I'm also a full time student and my parents expect soo much from me! I know how you feel you just wanna give up because its so much work and a lot of stress! I advise you that you don't give up! I know it sucks because you want to just be stress free but it will feel a lot better in the end! Maybe tell your parents that you're trying your best? Idk if I really helped but don't give up if you did fail you can always retake the class and try harder the next time :) P.S try not to think about the negatives when you feel like you are quickly think about something positive.
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