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writes: How do You know when you find mr.perfect?OKayy i like this guys,and well when im with him I can actually be myselfand with most guys I get all nervous and quite but with him its differentwe always tease each other about gay thingsits kinda sillyall our friends are saying we should date, since we both can be ourselves with each other but it would be so weird, wouldnt it??I like him alott, I get butterflies in my stomach from talking to him but cant help but laugh and just be stupid like my normal selffis he mr.perfect? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 November 2006): How long have you known him and why haven't you (if you haven't) gone on at least one date with him?
Its good that you enjoy talking to him and feel you can be yourself. Having butterflies in your stomach (and yes, that's not so different from feeling nervous) is because this is new and exciting.
Is he Mr. Perfect? No way to tell until you both get to know one another better. Things that will be important to consider are: can both of you feel comfortable and confident in talking together, both about ordinary, everday events, AND important stuff? How do you both deal with problems and glitches that inevitably come up in any relationship? Can you both say what's on your mind in a straightforward, honest way without blaming or accusing the other, or jumping to conclusions.
Do you share similar values and goals as to what you both want out of life, and where you're going, hopes for the future (whether that future is separately - start with that one) or eventually, together?
Lastly, what are the qualities you want and just as important, do not want, in a boyfriend?
Think about all this and see how it goes. Invite him to have lunch with you, if you want, and see what he says.
You'll eventually discover whether he really does have the potential to be Mr. Perfect for you, and you Miss Perfect for him.
But remember: NOBODY is perfect! We all have flaws and feet of clay!
Do you both like similar activities? Staying home most of the time, or socializing with friends. How do you feel about religion/spirituality? Can you both lead your own lives, not being together 24/7 but enjoying and having fun when you are in each other's company?
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reader, jng23 +, writes (7 November 2006):
about gay things?
Whats that about?
Anyway, you wont find out if he's right for you unless you go out there and date him.
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