A
female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:hey,Iv'e been seeing a friend for 3 weeks and last night i was going to ask him to make official between us but i think hes blown me off. We walked home after going to the pub with friends and he said he was tired and wanted to go home alone because he had to be up early for work, and then he gave me a hug goodbye and said i'll see you soon. He has always kissed me properly goodbye and arranged a day to next see me. Whats going on? I'm worrying it is because he thinks ive got a thing going with one of my friends whose moved in with me as i was stupidly trying to make him jealous in the hope that he would say yes to when i asked him to make it official. Have i blown it? I'm devasted to be knocked back like that because i really like him. I've text him to ask him to meet tonight and if he says yes im going to put him straight about my friend somehow but im really upset about how off he was with me last night.
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reader, stawberry01 +, writes (5 September 2007):
 Hi
Its not fair to play games but you did it for good he could be upset that you ask someone eles and not him tell him what you did and why he may thank you for it.
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reader, missbunbury +, writes (5 September 2007):
 You might still be OK, but I think you're right that playing games has affected the way he feels, so I think total honesty is your only option here. Tell him you were trying to make him jealous, and you feel really silly about it now, and you'd like to clear everything up and get back on track.
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