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writes: I am in a relationship for about 4 months now with a girl that got out of a 4 year relationship about 9 months before we started dating. She's 20 years old and I am 22. She still talks to him and wants to be friends with him which I guess is reasonable given the amount of time they were together. However, he still wants to be with her. She says she's over him, but is still jealous of the fact that he has a girlfriend right now. She wants to go party with him sometime because she is way into partying (5 to 6 nights a week.) Should I be concerned that she really hasn't let him go? When I get out of a relationship I don't really try to be friends with the one I dated for quite a while just due to the "weirdness" factor when you see them next. Do girls ever really let go of past lovers if they are still friends with them?
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 February 2006): Well I think that if he still wants her and she has not gone back to him then don't worry about it. When girls try to be 'just friends' with an ex its becuase they really cared about the guy, otherwise they would say they'll be 'just friends' and never speak to them again. If she's jealous about his new girl i think that you should be understanding because they went out for a really long time and it's normal for her to eye his new girl and even talk bad about her but if she seems to be doing it more frequently or it bothers you then you should talk to her and tell her how you feel about it. As for the partying, if she wants to hang out with him you should let her do it but maybe you should come along, if she's such a party girl then she knows the saying 'the more the merrier'. It seems to me she is 'over' him, meaning she doesn't want to be with him anymore, but she obviously still cares for him as a friend. So don't worry about it so much, but don't blind yourself either.
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