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writes:Hey there im guna apologise for this as its guna be a long one.This girl on facebook messaged me with a conversation her and my boyfriend were having, im guna post it here - could you please let me know what you think?Do you think he has cheated? Do you think he would with this girl? please help. Just to let you know ive been with my BF 3 and a half years for the forst 6 months he cheated twice but since then as far as i know he hasnt cheated anymore.Should i be angry?29 December at 21:22hey babe. do you work in durham? x - girl30 December at 10:28no, a used 2 bout a yr ago. do i know u? lol - bf30 December at 21:32maybe not, i thought i just recognised your face as i work in boots. I'm new to this facebook so am making new friends, hope thats ok x -girl30 December at 23:07ah ryt! lol like a sed, a used 2 work in dham n been in boots there loads! lol u not got a pic yet? bfToday at 11:55Maybe i do recognise u then. Ive got a load of pictures on my camera but i just dont know how to get them on my computer! When i do i will let you know though! Im daft when it comes to computers ha. So how was your new year? What did you get up too? x girlToday at 13:14Hello again babe! Ive added photos just for u! Took me blood ages ha! Let me know what u think x girlToday at 19:21lol yea u probs seen me dottin about! my new year was good thanks! yours? were ya good for santa 2? i just had a quiet new year with me gf and m8s. u? which are you in the pic then? bfToday at 19:28Is that ur GF in your picture? Yea my new year was good, spent it up newcastle with my mateys. Am always a good girl ;) so i got loads off santa, what about u? Are you a good boy 2? Im the sexy 1 ha. Ive got blonde curls. It was my birthday night out last year x girlToday at 19:34yea, we were in paris (cos am the best bf eva!) haha yea, am always a good too! :D i gt a few suprises this year which a dnt normally get so was happy! i dont think i recognise ya! :( sorry! lol was it a fun nyt? x bfToday at 19:38you took her to paris? god shes a lucky girl! Not fancy a new girlfriend? ha. Cant believe you dont recognise me! Ha. Yea my night was really good thanks.How come you havent accepted my friend request would your girlfriend get jealous? lol x girlToday at 19:44a told ya, am the best bf in the worls! lol tell ya wot, nxt time am in dham al walk thru n c if a can see ya! wot part ya wrk on? lol yea she myt, bt al accept ya anyway, as long as ya stay a good girl! haha! x bfToday at 19:50Ha i told you i'm always a good girl! I hate jealous bfs/gfs. Yea u shud definately visit me, i work behind the perfume counter. You should let me know what day your going to go through, lunch? Just tell me if im being too forward ha x - girlToday at 19:52she nt really jealous, she really nice really lol she jst gets...abit ova protective? haha i dunno wen al nxt b thru, jst wen eva am off work n can b arsed 2 go thru! lol u eva go out in dham? x - bfToday at 19:54i cant be doing with jealous/overprotective bfs ha! U must be a nice bf!! Well if you ever know ur going through let me know. Yea i go out in durham every now and then. u? x -girlToday at 20:01lol i am! :D i will do. yea, its practically the only place i go out! lol how long u worked at boots then? u lyk it? x - bfToday at 20:03not long at all babe just since November so if you havent been there very much that might be why you dont recognise me. Its ok not great, where do you work? You not seeing your GF tonight? x - girlToday at 20:08a think av only been in once since then! i musta caught ya eye ;) haha i work at npower in peterlee, bt used 2 work in river island. no, nt 2 nyt. u single then? x bfToday at 20:10You must have ha! How long ago since you worked in river island then? Yea Im single! So are you a nice BF or a naughty 1? x - girlToday at 20:11i worked there bout a year and a half ago, i worked there for bout 4years tho.i told u, am the best bf in the world! :D x - bfToday at 20:13God i hope im not at boots that long ha! Guessing you liked it then? I dont believe your best BF in the world. lol. how long have you been with her? x - girlToday at 20:15i hated it bt miss it now, if that mks any sense! lol why dont you believe it? lol been with her bout 2years now. how long u been single? x - bfToday at 20:18been single about 6 months now, sometimes its good sometimes its not! So youve been a nice bf? No cheating what so ever in 2 whole years? x - girlToday at 20:27wots the good sides and the bad sides? lol u think i'm a cheat lyk? x - bfToday at 20:30Good is i can do whatever i want when i want and bad are that you get a bit bored and lonely. ever wish you were single? I dont think you could stay faithful for 2 years. Am i right? x - girlToday at 20:40if u happy then ya can stay faithful! :D u not got any lads lined up then? x - bfToday at 20:45You really belive that? So you have? U may be a bit boring for my liking ha! Only jokin babe! Been checking out your pictures you looked loved up all of you and your gf! Im jealous! Only u that ive got lined up babe ;) ha x - girlToday at 20:54yea! lol dont you? abit boring?! your mean! u betta b joking! lol u afta a lad lyk? wot type u go 4? x bfToday at 20:56i am like a said im a nice girl. Yea i want some fun hehe. i go for people like you ha! Im honestly not being a whore! Ha. I just think your gorgeous. Your GFs really lucky x girlToday at 21:14haha u dnt even know me tho! i meant if u afta a lad i myt ava friend? x bfToday at 21:16i know what you look like though.See u r boring lol. whose this friend then? x girlToday at 21:19lol how am i boring? i dunno, i wanted 2 see wot kinda lad u lyk then i can find 1 4 ya? x bfToday at 21:22Ur too loved up! Ha. U dont want any fun! Someone who looks like u! Ha. a lad whose nice not a arsehole. Sum1 whose up for fun but not just one night stands. u not up for anything like? x girlToday at 21:47i told u, am the best bf eva! :D - bfToday at 21:54so i see lol. good for u. Guessing thats your mate who added me. thanks but no thanks lol x - girlToday at 21:57hahaha!! he a cany lad! no, i didnt av ne1 in particular in mind, jst wanted 2 see wot kinda lads u go 4. u know rachael shakespeare? a work with her x bfToday at 22:01No i have no idea who she is babe im guessing i have on here tho. So is the only reason you werent up for meeting is cos of your gf? im sure your friend is cani but not my type sorry x girlToday at 22:06yea, u gt a few ppl a know! u know any of em? lol well..yea it is lol wot else wud it b?! lol x bfToday at 22:07i dunno, ha! Who do i have? I dont know why else, i never get rejected big headed i know ha x girlToday at 22:11 u r a big hed!! lol u been up 2 much 2nyt? x bfToday at 22:17ive been doing nothing but on here and looking on a couple of websites for some new clothes, what about u? x girlToday at 22:20i jst been on ere n looking round the net. me friends baby is due soon n i need a gift. ne ideas? x bfToday at 22:24i do. i dunno clothes. isnt that everyone gets new babies? Anyway i'm going to pop down my mates. Nice talking to you. Nite nite x girlToday at 22:27u shud think and get back to me about the baby! haha yea, nice talking 2 u 2. spk soon. x bf
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 January 2009): Like honeypie said, this girl was being very forward and making herself look stupid, seeing as your boyfriend continuously politely rejected her. She obviously wasn't getting the message.
I wouldn't worry about it. The best thing you can do is not let it get to you, and definately don't let it get between you and your boyfriend (as thats clearly what she wants). Don't reply to her either, even if you really want to. Leave her unsure and wondering. She doesnt deserve the satisfaction of a reaction from you
good luck!
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reader, Honeypie  +, writes (5 January 2009):
 Man, that was TOUGH to read, why can't people spell? The whole net speak is horrible.. Uh, I digress,
No he isn't cheating on you as far as I can tell. He's trying very hard (but not very firmly) to shot her advances down. She's trying to get him to talk crap about you but that doesn't seems to work either.. She's after him alright. He doesn't seem all that keen.
I'd remove her from your own website ( if she is a friend on your page)
Would be nice if he would stop talking to her, but honestly I wouldn't make that demand. Hopefully he will actually notice what she is doing all by himself and cut her off.
Oh yeah, if you have any cute pictures of the two of you from Paris, post them :)
GL
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reader, Sweety Pie +, writes (5 January 2009):
 Hey I wouldnt worry! This girl seems..er.. quite forward and I think she likes him, however your boyfriend seems to be sticking to his guns here that he is NOT available, so dont worry!
Another thing.. why would the girl message you with this?? I think she is trying to make you jealous, or cause a argument between you and your bf so she can have him!
Ignore her and keep on being all loved up with your bf, that will annoy her! Take some more loved up pictures and post them! Haha shes just trying to stir up trouble. If your boyfriend wants to meet her, you go with him! Thats definatly gonna bug her and she wont dare make a move if your there. Your lucky to have such a great bf, omg paris?! You lucky girl!
Good luck
xox
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