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writes:my boyfriend and i have been together for 7 months and we haven't really gone that far. he says he doesnt want to go to second base yet (fingering/handjob) yet for a while because he's not ready. when we made out a few days ago, he put his hands down the back of my pants whilst we were making out, i'm confused. has he changed his mind?
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reader, Tisha-1 +, writes (20 May 2010):
 I think the simple thing to do is ask him. I know it's hard to talk about things, but if you've discussed this in the past, I don't see why you couldn't simply tell him that his action confused you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 May 2010): Just speak to him about what happend I think that he is just being understanding and trying to make sure that your ready yourself
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reader, ChicaLatina +, writes (20 May 2010):
 Maybe he respects and thats good. Just wait until the time comes.
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