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Has anyone ever experienced this before?

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Question - (24 March 2009) 2 Answers - (Newest, 24 March 2009)
A female United States age 41-50, *erenity1 writes:

Hey Aunts...i'm wondering can someone help me with distinguishing the meaning of something that happened to me as a teenager. Well it's kind of weird, but i'm sure someone may be familiar with this sort of thing...

here goes...when i was about 14yrs old, i was having sex with my first love, and in the middle of us having sex i unintentionally said another guys name...i said it very calmly...it was more so a whisper.

at this point my first love was wondering was i cheating on him and in reality i wasn't...as a matter of fact i've never even had a crush on this guy at all...he just went to middle and high school with me and my first love...i was actually good friends with his twin sister.

now almost 15yrs later...i see the guy in a bar amongst people we both know and end up hooking up with him. i've experienced alot of guys throughout my life but there's something special about this situation...i just can't yet put my finger on it...

i'm beginning to think that i already subconsciously knew something long ago...and had no acknowledgement of what...im a spiritual person and feel this might be a revealation...has anyone ever experienced this before?...if so please share your experience and how it relates to mine...i would love to hear and compare notes...thanks guys...this is really on my mind...help me!!!

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A male reader, StudentOfLife Canada +, writes (24 March 2009):

StudentOfLife agony auntThere's always something about the first love, it's special, more powerful since it's the first time. It's like we're made to stay with the first person we went in a relationship with.

It always give me sort of a shock to see my first love now, and I see on her face that it does the same to her too.

To me, trying to explain it is like trying to explain how a banana taste like.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (24 March 2009):

OMG I THINK YOU GUYS ARE MENT TO BE!...

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