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writes:id like to ask every one about my relationship and see if any one else had one like this before. Me and my girlfriend have been dating for 11 months now, and we were friends for a few months before hand. This is my first relationship ever and this is her like 3rd, but the others were not serious and lasted 4 months tops. We are both 18 and go to the same high school and are seniors. Our relationship has always seemed so much different then every one elses that i have talked to or observed.For about the first month we only could talk threw text because when we were together in school i was shy and it was hard to talk to her. We texted every day after school and talked about a bunch of stuff and really started to get to know each other. But we still had problems talking in person. Things got better though and a few days after a month we said we loved each other. I felt so strongly about her, whether it was love or infatuation i'm still unsure. Then we started to do sexual things. We did everything except sex, and we did them pretty often because it was summer and we had a lot of alone time. We hung out every other day over the summer pretty much and thats when we clicked. And every time we hung out it was just us at each others house. We grew so close together and thats when we fell in love for sure. When we were not hanging out our playing sports we were texting each other, from the time we got up to the time we went to sleep. We know every thing about each other, how we view things, everything. On the down side we pushed our friends away with hanging out and texting so much. We both still have friends its just we hardly hang out with them like we used to. So needles to say our lives revolve around each other. To this day 11 months later we text none stop, if we can text each other we are, its at least 4 hours each day at the very minimum, its usually a lot more than that. Also we tell each other EVERYTHING. I tell her my deepest thoughts and feelings. Down to embarrassing stuff i have never told any one before. And if something she is doing bothers me ill tell her and we will fix the problem. The one time i was getting insecure about her talking to these guys on facebook she met on vacation before we met, and she said she would stop talking to them, and she did. I also asked her not to hang out with guys one on one or just with guys (she didn't at the time, i just asked her never to) and she said that she wouldn't. So we are both very open with our feelings, we tell each other everything that is on out mind, and listen to the other person if we say not to do something. We control each others lives with stuff like that but we both don't feel smothered or like we need space. We both agree with the stuff above and i do the same that i ask of her but with girls. I don't know but i just never hear about this with other couples, there always afraid of doing something stupid in front of their girlfriend. I'm just so at home in front of my girlfriend, i could care less if i embarrass my self or say something stupid.Also we will be attending the same college and have been having sex for about 4 months now.For some reason i feel like our relationship is just so drastically different then the norm. She feels like my best friend, its quite an amazing feeling.Has any one experienced this kind of relationship? if u haven't what do u think about it? Is this a bad relationship?
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reader, Mona Hunter +, writes (28 March 2011):
awwww... You guys are perfect for each other! Forget about what normal and whats not, but your both in love and thats normal!
Im happy for you guys, just by reading your question made me jealous. Haha. Its really what most couples(and single ppl) wish for in a relationship. This is absolutely not a bad one, just dont forget your friends.
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reader, Ldu  +, writes (28 March 2011):
Hey man congrats on your relationship. I know exactly what your feeling me and my fiancé are then same, its amazing how we understand eachother and how open we are, I've never had a connection like this before. Don't let it slip away man.
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