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female
age
41-50,
*eeved
writes:I want to dress up this evening for my partner in some nicec lingerie, it is something he loves. However, he has had a period of no libido as he was on medication. We were intimate last week for the first time in months and nothing this week. I know he looks at women online so it must be that his desire has returned... but I am scared of rejection on this occasion. I want to surprise him when he gets in from work but think he'll say 'look i'm not in the mood' . We did fall out 2 days ago too...... What should i do folks?
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reader, lexilou +, writes (14 August 2008):
 Why dont you put the sexy lingerie on underneath your clothes. Have a nice meal ready for him, a bottle of wine etc, dim the lights, offer him a massage, set the scene and see how receptive he is. If he shows interest, show him the underwear, if he's not then at least you havent lost face by being rejected as you dont even have to tell him your wearing it x
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 August 2008): Yes, I have been rejected doing this.
The first time I did it for the bf he was all into it. The 2nd time, I was rejected.
We were having a relaxed evening in bed just surfing the net and I got up and took a nice long shower paying special attention to everything and then spent the next 20 minutes squeezing into a gorgeous corset and stockings and I came in the bedroom and he seemed quite pleased.
I put on some music and did a strip dance for him. Then I got in the bed and thought we would be making mad passionate love but no, he flipping turned towards his computer and started watching junk on youtube!!!!! What a let down. I slunk into bed and under the covers and cried quietly.
Needless to say, I haven't dressed up for him again.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 August 2008): Your idea sounds great But I do think you should pay attention to TIMING; if he walked in the door tired from work and traffic; maybe let him unwind and then surprise him!
(Just a suggestion!)
Have fun, enjoy and keep SMILING.
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reader, Laura-x +, writes (14 August 2008):
Dress up and feel confident that your gonna give him a great night, no guy can reject a woman all dressed up and sexy. This will make him forget about all the fall outs and of course get him in the mood! Feel sexy and have a good night xx
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