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female
age
36-40,
*ocha Chica
writes:Dear CupidMy ex of 2 yrs and I had a messy break up due to the fact that when i was working abroad for a few months, I cheated. I came back and confessed my mistake to my boyfriend, which i guess was kinda stupid. He decided to get back at my by dating someone I hate and anyways we were making up and breaking up for a year because of her and him secretly doing things behind my back and my temper tantrums when it came back to dealing with my situation and well finally got to a point where we are friends now. Unfortunately every once in a while we end up having sex and well have just decided to accept that we would be friends with benefits. He told me that he was not having sex with his girlfriend, which I believed because we dated for 8months before we started having sex. Today i accidently read a message on his phone from his girl basically saying that they are having sex. We have always had unprotected sex and well he never has condoms at his place so I know that he must be having unprotected sex with her too. I am really disappointed in him and well angry at myself for being so foolish as to believe his lies. My question is, Do i try to salvage some kind of friendship from this man while i finish up my final semester at varsty or am I right to not want anything to do with him. I have not yet confronted him and right now i want nothing to do with someone who is willing to put my health at risk and yet claim to love me more than anything in this world. What's a girl to do cupid?
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reader, duskyrowe  +, writes (3 May 2008):
 How can you say you are not willing for someone to put your health at risk, when you cheated yourself? Neither of you are relationship material.because you BOTH CHEAT RIGHT??
He is going behind his girlfriend's back to have his jollies with you, you can't have it both ways dear.
I feel sorry for his girlfriend getting mixed up with a pair like you, she should be aware of STD as well. Or are you looking out for yourself. If you don't want to catch STD then insist on PROTECTED SEX .... DUH!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 May 2008): You started the mess by cheating so you can have no complaints about what has followed - I'm assuming that up to that point he was faithful to you?
But you really do need to find out what is going on for the sake of the sexual health of everyone involved in this
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