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writes: Me and my boyfriends split up after two years, we remained best friends and it hasn't helped us get over eachother, i still love him like a boyfriend and recently i have caused an argument that made my friend end our friendship, he will not talk to me. I want him back so much. Whats the best way to get his forgivness and for him to listen to me? Thanks
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reader, Royofthe Rovers +, writes (15 April 2007):
Give him time.. Your feelings for your ex are clearly what is causing the problem. It is hard to find a balance between friend and lover.
I have had a similiar situation and I had to choose not to see the person again. Purely because I knew i would be always looking for more out of the relationship, and that is not good for either of you.
I`m not saying this is what you should do, but if you cant draw a line under the relationship; you are putting pressure on him and on yourself and is only going to end up with someone getting hurt.
I would just give him the space he needs for now....
I wish you all the best..x
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