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writes: It seems to me that the men I date love to chase but lose interest once they know I'm interested in them. If I'm not interested in a guy, he'll keep trying to ask me out, even if I keep turning him down. And if I really do like a guy who has pursued me, they seem to lose interest after a couple of dates. As soon as I let on that I like a man, it's like he can't handle it. It's not as if I'm needy or act that way. I have my life and they have theirs. And it's not a situation where we got intimate, we just dated. So I don't understand it. I've had this situation happen to me several times and am wondering why and how to prevent this from happening again. Reply to this Question
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reader, smeedle  +, writes (3 March 2006):
 Dont tell them you like them, just keep it casual and soon they will be trying to guess if you like them and then they will commit a bit more because they will think they are in controle of the way the relationship progresses and the speed etc.
Chill out and just enjoy it, say nothing about how you feel until they have asked.
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