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writes:Hi there,I'm 21 years old and have not had a proper relationship since I was 18 - before then I'd been on two, one of which ended badly.It took me a long time to get my confidence back after this and feel that only now has it really started to come back and, strangley enough, I am noticing myself returning to the way I was before I got into the first relationship. Not sure whether this a good thing or not but I am beginning to feel the same level of confidence now that I felt then.Obviously I would like to find someone special in the future but at the same time do not want to rush things.I am just wondering about the whole 'men do all the chasing' thing... With my last boyfriend, although he seemed more interested in me than I was in him anyway, I was able to text him on the same night after our first date and tell him I had a good time and we arranged several more times to go out after that... What I am asking is, surely girls should show at least SOME interest in the guy or he will just think we are not at all interested in them and give up trying? I have never had to play games with men to get their attention and seem to be able to get complete strangers (male ones) to smile at me on the odd occasion. I am not arrogant but at the same time do not consider myself to be ugly, though I am well aware that I look a few years younger than my age (is this a bad thing...?).Would appreciate any advice/opinions on this from bith men and women. Thanks!
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