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*andomando
writes: I just want to know how bad this is. I was drunk and sexting a girl on facebook, I was not aloud to talk to her. There were rumors that me and this girl hooked up months before I went on Facebook, but we never did. now she thinks those rumors are true when we got them solved months ago. She went on my computer somehow and got on my facebook somehow when I was in the shower. I did not know I had a conversation with this girl on facebook. I would have deleted it if I had know I had a conversation... My girlfriends past is fucked and cheating is apart of her family and her past relationship. I tried to tell her the truth, I was drunk, facebook friended this girl because I was not friends with her. she accepted it in minutes then we talked.(after not talking at all for months) The next morning I saw her posts on my wall and deleted her because I know I am not aloud to talk to her or be friends with her. 3 weeks later she went on my computer. Found the conversation and she read it crying and yelling at me and I was standing in my towel in shock. and that hit me I must have talked to her that night. We have since talked on email because I smashed my phone and deleted my facebook. I dont know what she thinks is going to happen she says she will never forgive me or get back together with me but she has said that before once when we broke up and weeks later she took me back. I make dum mistakes because I dont think but I have never cheated on her. I really dont know why she went on my computer. it was like she wanted me to mess up and find something to incriminate me with. It sucked alot more because that day was are 11 month and I had secretly planned a fun evening... I dont remember that conversation at all so this is just a shock to me. I know she should be mad at me and I know drinking is not an excuse but seriously this seems really dum to me. This happened to my friend but he was talking to this girl for weeks and his girlfriend found out. She was angry and mad but got over it. He didnt do anything and he stopped talking to her. I feel alot of the reasons y she has trust issues are due to her past. im a really good guy. I dont hook up with girls and havnt before her. she is my first pretty much everything. When im drunk or anything i talk to my guy friends because I dont feel comfortable talking to girls.I really really like this girl. and was trying so hard to not mess up. I dont know how I did. She is the most amazing girl on the planet. I just need to know is it possible to earn her trust back? How do i get her to like me again? she told me yesterday that she loves me and that she will always love me. but that doesnt mean she will get back with me tho. From a girls perspective how bad is this? Should i move on? i dont want to. I dont think I can see her with another guy without getting angry and doing something I will regret.. What should i do? How do i get her to be with me again?
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reader, landomando +, writes (18 September 2011):
landomando is verified as being by the original poster of the questionIt was the first day of being on your own at college..
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reader, todsucht  +, writes (18 September 2011):
 stop drinking, is all i can say. that seems to cause all the problems your having.
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