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writes: Any guys out there, I need your help. If you were in a friends with benefits situation with a girl, and you both treat each other with a great amount of respect and get along great, and both are very attracted to one another, what would be a good way to break it to them that you are looking for something more (not necessarily with them, but if it was with them then that would be great for the qualities listed above)? Or is there really no way to break something like that to a friend with benefits? Would love to hear what you guys's takes are on this...
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 January 2009): the advice below is right on, you cant expect more when he already gets his benefits. why would he want the 'baggage'? no way will it change- get out now before you get hurt. cause fwb is just a nice slice for us. i know i wouldnt want the emotional junk if i could just tap it and bounce.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 January 2009): If you want more, stop being a FWB. Why on earth would he want to commit when he already gets everything he wants?
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