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writes:So theres this guy i met when i was 15 (im 16 now) at the school prom i was helping with music. So he came over and asked me to dance thinking i was older LOL and after he asked for my number and i said sure why not and a few days later he found out i was 3 years younger than him!Were still very good friends and we tell each other everything, hes funny, smart and gorgeous... even though our age difference is pretty big but we dont mind. We havent officially dated or anything even though we kiss all the time. I knew that he was the one for me hes so caring and loving so i decided i wanted him to be my first (i know stupid of me =.=) and he agreed to it but being the guy he was he later said i was to young and said i have to be more comfortable and all of that.He cares about me sooooo much but i have no clue if he loves me or not... he recently broke up with his ex 3 months ago and i asked why and he said "She was always distant i knew i had to end it or she was gonna.." and he was all sad and depressed... so what im asking is does he love me? or just care for me very very much? and if he does love me how should i tell him i love him too! im so confused ]:
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 November 2008): yeah i understand completely!!my boyfriend too seems to be much more different than my ex..actually than everybody..personally, people say that my body is totally more mature than girls of my age..thus boys just want 'something' from me and I'm sick of it..-.- but my boyfriend don't actually think about that!=) and well if he leaves and picks you from school..then he really cares about you!:] and perhaps he's looking for more...actually i don't quite think a guy would pick you from school if he didn't love or even care you see?
well i hope you'll find what you're searching for!!:]
hugs and kisses!^^
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 November 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionso then what could i do all the guys that i have liked just want to get in my pants but hes completely different he respects me cares for me and everything he drives mt to school and picks me up i just feel like were alredy together but hes waiting for something i wanna show him im that something alredy .. but i cant figure it out :S gahh
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 November 2008): Hmm... it does sound slightly complicated! I get the feeling that it's your age that is stopping him from dating you, not because he doesn't want to, but because he's worried about the problems it'll cause. What would his/your parents say?
However you are above the age of consent so I think his worries should be small. Does he know how you feel about him? Maybe, if you don't think that you'll lose your friendship over it. Tell him that you're both legal (and tbh the age gap isn't horrendously big anyway) so he shouldn't worry about it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 November 2008): well..hum..he seems to really care about you ^^ and that's a very good point..and i think[and i said I!!]there's not much difference between you two..actually, a lot of people date others a lot more older or younger than themselves..but that's my opinion ^^''
and yeah..i wanted to say that first but now the big problem..we cannot say or see that he really loves you..yes he does care..that's obvious..but who knows he might love you as well!!=) just, give it more time...and you'll see for yourself ^^ i was actually in an exact problem...''^^ lol..but then..i met another guy..we are now together..and he's definitely the one i love the most..but umm...*** I'm being selfish here xP
just, wait a little and if he doesn't seem to tell you anything then..do it yourself!!:]
p.s i know i talk s*** sometimes!!xD
take care!