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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:So i liked this guy (a massive jerk) and he ended up knowing i liked him by the way i acted around him. Anyway we have a mutual friend so she tried to get him to ask me out (she was telling him how cute we'd look together). then he says 'she aint my type, she has an ugly bum, she's too short and she's fresh (someone that just came from Africa. I still have an African accent). but don't tell her i said that.' my friend then told me what he'd said. I have some self esteem issues especially when it comes to my accent so i was really offended. I'm not the first he offended though, he once called my friends fat and ugly. I think in some way he's insecure too because he's not that good looking and kinda chubby so maybe he's rude to make up for his insecurities?Now i don't know what to do, should i confront him or just leave it? if i confront him, what do i say? do guys like him even have a conscience, i mean if you're rude like that you're bound to feel guilty right?
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reader, dmartin89 +, writes (20 March 2011):
 No, don't confront him, you'd just be wasting your time. Arrogant guys like this wont care what you have to say.
You will appear to be more mature to just leave him to his own devices. You sound like a nice girl, don't spend your time focusing on people Luke this!
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