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writes:I just don't know what to do...I've been seeing this guy for about a year and half. We met online and we clicked. It's like we have so much in common and we talk about almost everything from music, books, movies, politics. He'll even attempt to talk to me about cars lol This guy would brag about me to his friends and told them I was "his equal".It wasn't immediately sexual. The first time we tried, he stopped me, citing that it would be better to wait. I agreed and said, "I don't want to have sex with you anyway...I wanna make love to you...."I went away to college and we remained in contact for a good bit. No sex until months later after talking to me throughout my last semester classes.I didn't feel used. I felt like I was making love...This guy acts like my boyfriend. All the times I'm with him, he caters to me. He tells me about all of his comings and goings, his plans, he even told me of a tattoo that he wants to get.This guy even brought me coffee in bed and we made breakfast together. Mind you, we didn't have sex the previous night.But he told me he doesn't want a relationship....Why?
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 November 2011): If he is sending you such a mix up and it has you feeling confused- walk away. Seriously.
If you are not happy with he is not putting a defining term on this non relationship but is okay with being an emotional support to you...
Sorry it just sounds all messed up. Usually a man that does all of that, does it out of love and wants to help a woman feel special.
But he could do it because he is abusive and wants you to rely on him.
http://www.tonjaweimer.com/tips-for-singles/dating-a-serial-cheater-how-serial-cheaters-can-seduce-you
Just something is jiving or making sense right? So your gut says, yah, not liking this set up.
Trust the gut and cut the guy lose ASAP.
Move On.
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reader, supermum  +, writes (21 November 2011):
 We can't answer that hun, you would have to ask him. There could be soooo many reasons it is impossible to speculate, and I feel in situations like this, speculations from others could be harmful... ie leading you down the wrong path which could damage your relationship
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