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writes:8 months ago i met Shawn when i began a new job where he worked. things went pretty fast and we began to date 2 mths later. along the line, we were convinced we shld get married. but lately there've been so many issues. we had an issue last wk when i put my phone on silent at his place and kept it in my bag. he said it's looking like i'm cheating on him, but i was just not in d mood to be disturbed. and he exclaimed that i lack self-control, i sell myself cheap to guys and he's not sure abt me anymore. i tried to explain that he's the only one, but no. i lost interest in the whole thing when he told me i like sex too much and never say no to him. he met me a virgin aged 26. i thot i was enduring painful sex in the name of love, but no. honestly, pple tell me i'm hasty, but i really want to be alone now. how shld i break up with him?
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 May 2008): becareful this guy sounds needy, insecure and controlling.. don't rush into marraige with him.
You must tell him its over perhaps have a friend with you for support??
It is horrible breaking up with some one but you have to think of your own happiness, you only get one life!
Emilyanswers advice is very good.. tell him you are not sure about him anymore and that you want to be alone.
I hope it works out for you.. if you really do want to break up do it sooner rather than later good luck x
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reader, Emilysanswers  +, writes (30 April 2008):
Next time he blows up about something or says something nasty or hurtful to you just tell him that you don't think you want to be with someone who treats you that way and walk away.
Of course you will have to follow this up with a meeting to end it properly, and try and make it so that you don't hate each other afterwards. But the main "I want to break up" bit will have been done.
Good Luck!! xx
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