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30-35,
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writes:Alright, so homecoming is next week. My boyfriend, who is a senior, asked me. I am a sophomore. I said yes. He's done a lot for me, so I thought it'd be cute to ask him too- well I did and he said yess. We've been dating for three months. We fight a lot, and yesterday he told me that he doesn't really want to go, he's just going because it would make me happy.I don't want to drag him to something he doesn't really want to be at, and he said that we'd probably end up fighting anyways :|I don't know what to do. Should I just go by myself? My friends have dates. My best friend doesn't, but she's not going. My boyfriend says he's still taking me but I don't want to go with him if he's going to be in a bad mood all night.. it would ruin my homecoming..I also heard that homecoming is not as much fun as everyone expects it to be, and that people just grind on each other.. which would be really weird.I talked to his ex last night and she told me that he didn't go with her for the same reason. I think if he didn't really want to go with me, he shouldn't have asked. And he said that if we weren't dating I would go without him, but I didn't last year and we weren't dating..? I still have two other homecomings I can go to, it wouldn't be the end of my life.What do I do?Thank you for any useful advice.
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reader, Time wont let me go  +, writes (2 October 2010):
 this is just what i would do in the end its up to you what you think it correct. I would go with a guy friend, but done cheat on your BF. Thats the last thing you should do. Just go with your guy friend and have a good time. car pool with one of your girl friends so you 2 are never alone and there was no question if you were cheating or not. Have fun and enjoy homecoming, Were only in high school there are going to be a lot more guys out there for us, so enjoy your life and take every opportunity you have! GOOD LUCK!
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