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writes:hi im 15 and im going out with a 17 year old (ik its a bit of an age difference but idc bout that) named Beth and shes great. she smart, athletic, pretty and a bunch more things. i love her and all but we started going out um about 5 or 6 days after my ex (Sedona) and i broke up. and ik its fast but i really had feelings for beth and i still do a lil bit. anyway Sedona is in my grade and we arent friends or anything cause i cant be friends when i still like her a lil. Sedona was my first love and i know i loved her more than i love beth right now and prbly always will. i always think about Sedona, i see her alot, ppl always talk bout how we were great together even some of my teachers! ik i still love Sedona and dont get me wrong i love Beth too. but idk what kind of love i have for Beth. me and Sedona wont go out again cause we fight way to much and everything always gets in the way and i know us going out wouldnt make her happy and i dont want to make her unhappy ever. so should i stay with Beth even though i love Sedona (still after she broke my heart so many times) or break up with Beth cause i dont wanna love Sedona and love Beth but only like a good friend? and beth and i have been arguing alot lately. any ideas.
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reader, iSmil3y +, writes (27 March 2009):
First off, I noticed you said "I love" a lot in your question. If you say you "love" two girls, you obviously don't know exactly what love is or feels like. You probably do like both of these girls a lot but if you and your ex broke up, and you got together with the other girl, try your hardest to get over your ex. It won't be easy but try little by little. If you like the girl your with now and know you want to be with her, get over your ex before you hurt this girl. If you don't think you and this girl belong together, then it's probably Not meant to be.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 March 2009): You and your current girlfriend are probably arguing a lot right now because of the mindset your in about still liking you ex.
In my opinion you probably do like this girl a lot, but you didn't have enough time to get over your ex before you started this relationship and that is what is causing the arguments.
All in all you need to find a way to get over your ex before you hurt this girl, and yourself even more.
If it doesn't feel right, it's most probably not.
Good luck hun.
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