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writes: Recently my gf and i have decided that we will not engage in any sexual activities for an undetermined amount of time. I personally am having trouble with this decision because i enjoy our sex life and want it to continue, but have accepted i can not force this. I was wondering if anyone could help me come up with easy and fun activities for me to avoid those moments where we would be performing the act. These can be almost anything, from going out, to staying in. I want her to understand that we can have fun without have sex and hope that eventually we will begin to do both sex and the fun sexual things.
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reader, xxxsoulsistaxxx  +, writes (7 August 2006):
 I'd just like to ask, out of pure nosiness, why you have both decided to give up sex? I'm not saying it's a bad thing, I'm sure it's right it your circumstances and it's a very good thing to do if you both need to work things out or get your heads stright, or even just to make it even more amazing next time!!!
When you can't have sex, girls loved to be shown attention in other ways. Intimacy can mean many things, not all of them sexual. Talking is always a good one, find out how she's feeling, listen to her and ask her stuff. Girls love to feel like you're interested in what they have to say.
What about massage? This involves touching each other and is very enjoyable but in a non-sexual way. Both of you will be relaxed and you can just see where the night takes you.
Take her out for a nice meal and some champagne, come home, have a snuggle and a kiss and go to sleep. Show her she's more to you than she'll ever know. I can't think of any more examples right now, just give her your undivided attention for a certain time each day. Because it's not sexual, it may have to be a bit longer than usual but it will make her feel a million dollars!!!
Good luck
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