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writes:Hi, i dont know what to do im so confused.... i got back wid my ex and i think he is doing the same as he did before useing me... when we first met back up it was so good to see him again we had a few drinks and a chat he cudnt stop saying sorry for all he has done in the past, he asked if we could give it another go i spoke to him about my fears of him breaking my heart all over again and how i still hold those feelings i had for him, in the end we decided we would give it another go. things have been good to a point we have been seeing each other as much as we can up n till recently when i whent out wid a few girl friends during that night out i bumped into a few of his friends who asked why i wernt wid him i said cos im out wid my friends tonight. my problem is that he is 31 years old and is kinda dependent on his friends his friends dont like the fact he is wid me not only me probs the fact he is wid someone and they arnt. i really like this guy infact i still love him, the past few days he as been distent with me not answering my calls, i dont understand how he can be like this with me when all he as promised not to hurt me again what can i say to him ? that dont make me sound like im desperate?? (even tho i am)please give me some advice x
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (30 September 2009):
You don't sound like you're desperate at all. You've given this guy a second chance and it sounds like he's failed flatly! I mean, when a guy chooses his best friends over his girlfriend, that really says it all. What is the point in him saying all that he has said, only to listen to his friends. You might love him, but believe me, you need to get out of this relationship. Don't bother with a guy who makes promises and fails to keep them. He's not worth a second more of your time. Dump him, get out there with those friends and find a better guy who'll actually love you. Don't be second best to his male friends.
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