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writes:Well i would like to get GIRLS to respond to this question.Well there is this girl at in my class who i liked at the begining of the year and i thought why not try to flirt with her. After a while i found that she did not like me and she was actually attracted to someone else, im not guessing on this i know for a fact that she liked this other guy at school. So anyways as the school year went on i still had feelings for her i mean i would give her a look her and there, but i knew she wasnt intrested in me but she is so gorgeous i just cant help but to look at her. Well anyways i would flirt with other girls and she would seem to try to get in the way she would always give me a look or interrupt the conversation, while i was flirting with this other girls but what made me angry was that when i tried to flirt with her she seemed passive about it so i was confused. well anyways one day i found out while i was in class that she had a boyfriend because i heard her friend say it out loud and she said in response to that was that she was going to break up with him, the girl said are you KIDDING me, he just made you his girlfriend like two weeks ago. I thought she was kidding of course but the next day she comes up to me and starts flirting with me hardcore i was like what was that????? So i found out she dumped her boyfriend and i was like so what, right. So she starts looking at me and smiling at me the next couple of days i was thinking what is going on here, i am confused as hell. She started to sit next to me and laugh at all my jokes and just you know flirt with me and i was so shocked i tried to keep away from her i was more annoyed than anything else.So this went on until i asked her for a ride well the next day she offered me one and i declined afterwards, i ignored her. Now she seems to be a little cold,.She still looks at me but i sense that she is seeing someone else since she is always texting in middle of class and thats how it started with her previous boyfriend and her friend asked her one day how was last night,like she went out on a date or something... i try to listen to her conversations and it seems she is talking about a guy but im not for sure on this but its weird she keeps flirting and im angry and confused why is it that KNOW she is intrested in me why not before,any advice what should i do should i persue her and why is she liking me know is it because the school year is almost over and we are not in high school .........so advice girls
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reader, chigirl  +, writes (11 December 2011):
 Why did you ignore her? Why do you need to know why she likes you NOW and not THEN? Haven't you ever had a change of heart? Why do you like her now, and not .. I dunno, at some point where you didn't like her yet? People change their minds and people grow on others and things develop because nothing is fixed or written in stone, thats why. If it makes you grumpy then why are you still having feelings for her when you don't want her since she hasn't been all over you for just as long as you have been all over her? Either you like her or you don't, right now it sounds like you don't actually like her or have feelings for her, you just wanted her to like you, and then when she does it's "too late"? You don't make sense.
Soon she'll stop liking you if you don't make a move fast to make up for ignoring her, and then you'll sit here wondering why people like others only to end up not liking them after a while.. Because people move on!!
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reader, fi_the_tree  +, writes (10 December 2011):
 I would focus on your school work... she sounds like trouble!
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