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male
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes:my girl friend will not allow me to talk low about her ex boy friend why? she regards always high about him but she says " I love you more than anybody and I will never leave you", what could be the reason can any one please help me and my fear is she still likes him, what to do to remove him from her mind and be close to me, I love her too much if I loose her I can't live please help me, her past story is that he was other tribe and both of their family may not allow them was there fear, that is why she did not express him in the past but she expressed about him to me, and she can't find him now anywhere don't know where he is?
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reader, TasteofIndia  +, writes (31 December 2010):
 Well, I'm not too familiar with your culture, but I am hoping my thoughts are universal. Maybe she does not like you talking badly about other people. She still seems to think he's a good guy - but that doesn't mean that she still wants to be with him! Just because they broke up does not make him a horrible guy.
Even if he is a creep, the more honorable thing to do is to not talk badly about other people. That makes you seem like a worse person for speaking ill of others. Your girlfriend seems to truly love you and the fact is - she is with YOU, not the ex boyfriend. You won! She chooses you.
Good luck!
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