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writes:my girlfriend and i have been dating for a year now she moved in with me and things were good for awhile then a girlfriend of hers needed a place to stay i let her stay here a few weeks until she started stealing from me any way i kicked her out and my girlfriend took her side anyway she says she loves me but left me said that i was controlling i have no idea where that comes from i have tried talking to her and thats all she can say that im controlling and i will never change i have done nothing but been good her i need advice on what to do i love her so much
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (19 October 2010):
 Ok you need to sit down and talk to her and ask her what you did that was controlling, she needs to be honest with you if this is going to work, ask her to explain to you everything you done that she felt was controlling so you can work on fixing this, if she is not prepared to talk to you and tell you then am afraid she has already made up her mind that its not going to work out and therefore you are just going to have to acccept it and move on by keeping yourself busy.
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reader, Indie23  +, writes (19 October 2010):
 In a lot of relationships, girls will nearly always choose their friends over their boyfriend.
Honestly, I think she completely over reacted and she should have let you explain why you kicked her friend out. Unfortunately that didn't happen, so I think you should try to move on.
You don't need somebody like that in your life, so I think you need to break off all contact with her and get on with your life.
I hope everything goes well for you in your future relationships.
Indie.
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