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reader, anonymous, writes (20 July 2010): That makes it truely fine. I really wouldn't worry about it
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reader, SlightlyLost  +, writes (19 July 2010):
I nust counted the number of scars on my body and it is *drum roll please* 32. If guys don't like them I am so stuffed! In reality we all carry scars physical or mental and only someone who is really heartless would ever reject you because of them x
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reader, raveing-neko14  +, writes (19 July 2010):
raveing-neko14 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthe scar is on my left elbow
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 July 2010): I love my man, scars and all. A decent girl who loves you would feel the same. She'd love every bit of you!
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reader, loving_him_4ever  +, writes (19 July 2010):
if a girl doesnt like it then you dont need that stuck up girl she shouldnt look at a scar i mean come on now she would have to be really heartless girls shouldnt mind it i know i dont
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 July 2010): Wouldn't bother me At ALL!! Infant it would add a nice bit of charectorr
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (18 July 2010):
 If she can't see past the scar and see you, she isn't worth a darn.
Scars are a part of you. There is a story behind every single scar.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 July 2010): Superficial girls don't like scars.
There are some girls that love em - you know the whole dark and dangerous and tough guy look...they think it's sexy
I date a guy who used to play hockey growing up and he has scars ALL over his body from hits, fights, surgeries, broken bones.....and to tell you the truth I don't even notice them. I love him for him.
I bet you focus on your scar more than anyone else does. Just work on your self-confience and GUARANTEED girls will find you attractive. Promise.
As for baddogbj's advice on not telling a girl you were bullied, I don't agree. Some girls find that vulnerable side really attractive. You just need to do what feels right for you. Trust yourself :)
All the best
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (18 July 2010):
I doubt you'll find a decent girl will care.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 July 2010): it wouldn't matter at all.cross my heart.i would even kiss the scar for him.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 July 2010): Also, sorry to hear such a thing happened through bullying. And like sexuk said, be happy with yourself.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 July 2010): Where is this scar? Many women as myself, love scars. I think it shows a bit more character in the person. But yes, you'll find a lot of women do like scars. Depending on where this scar is, also.
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reader, baddogbj  +, writes (18 July 2010):
 One of the many wonderful things about girls is that they all have different things that they are looking for in a guy. Some like the metrosexual pretty-boy look, some like a man with a face that looks well used. Don't worry there will be someone out there that likes what you've got. Don't tell them that you were bullied though.
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