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writes:I have just come back from travelling for 10 days. Before setting off i had a girlfriend of two months, Whilst travelling i spent an awful lot of time with another girl on the same trip. I feel very strong about her and now im not with her i miss her we both admitted to liking each other and spending time with her made me realise what i hated about my girlfriend compared to her.What do i do?Should i break up with my girlfriend and meet back up with the girl from travelling?How do i go about this? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 August 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI ended up choosing the travel girl :). We are very happy and i can't stop smiling now :)
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reader, Kenj +, writes (10 August 2010):
 You need to try and seperate infactuation from love here.
Also think about the reality of if you carry on the relationship with the girl you met on the trip, could you travel to see her if you started a relationship?
Do you see any future for the other girl?
I think if you can answer these questions truthfully to yourself it will give you an answer of what to do.
Good luck.
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reader, lockwood11 +, writes (10 August 2010):
I think you should go with the one you feel the most about. But do it quickly, it'll only be harder later on. Break it to them genty and be honest about why you have done this so they don't think its something they have done.
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reader, mimisoph3  +, writes (10 August 2010):
 i cant technically tell u wat u should and should not do because it is your life,your future,etc.at the end of the day what makes a relationship a good relationship is the fact that you love everything about them and you feel like u have so much connection. u asking me wat to do with your own life just proves that compared to the girl u met u like her more then your girlfriend. do whats right,but if you dont feel happy in the relaionship u never will.good luck
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 August 2010): Well who do you see yourself 5 years from now with? I've been in the same position, so I understand it's a tough choice. I don't really know your girlfriend or the girl you met while away, but from what I read, I'm guessing your feelings are stronger for the tavel girl. Either ways. do what makes you happy. If you arn't happy in the relationship you're currently in, then it's obvious she's not the one.
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