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writes: i have been with my girlfriend for 5 months now, and sometimes i think shes finds things to be mad at me about, things thats most people wouldnt be angry at, she gets upset. Then when i ask whats wrong shes gives me a blank stare and says "nothing" and i have to ask her alot jsut to get her to tell me whats wrong? is it wrong that i feel kinda hurt when she doesnt tell me what wrong? Also how do i tell her that i think she over reacts to some of the things she gets mad at me about. For example on saturday night i told her i would see her on sunday, but i had some cleaning to do. On sunday, after i was done cleaning one of my friends called and asked if i wanted to play basketball, and i said sure. I told her i was goin to play for a lil bit, and she got mad and said "u never wanna spend time with me, and that i was avoiding her" i told i was just goin to play for a little bit and that i would see her afterward, which i did, when i got to her house she was still a little mad at me, but she apologized later. What do i do? i cant take her getting mad at me all the time for little stuff, but i love her very much and dont want to end it with her. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 January 2005): Take it from a girl. Yes its true depending on the girls age she can tend to over react to things if she is younger. But remember there are always two sides to a story. Lets say you told her that you would see her on sunday after your cleaning. Because she loves you so much and is anxious to see you, she probably didnt make any plans and got ready and was waiting on you to call. But then when you do call you make other plans. Which makes her feels less important considering she went outta her way to free up time for you. Think about it for a minute. and if she doesnt wanna anwser you about why she is mad its maybe because she doesnt want you to think she is over reacting but you are hurting her and making her feel like she is last on your list.
A reader, Wise Worm, writes (6 January 2005): How old is she? Young girls have got these type of issues, their hormones drive them crazy and they have insecurity issues. If you take your relationship seriously, give her the power. What I mean is, ask her! If you have an important family day and her parents ask her to spend the day with them. You would want her to ask you, is it ok if I spend the day with my folks rather, your response can be negative or positive but she asked you. If you had asked her, chances are she wouldn't have reactedthe way she did. If she said no rather come visit, GO, she will feel silly about her reaction, and learned.Next time will be better.TRY IT!!!
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