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writes:we had anal and now my gf is having a hard time passing a bowel movement, she said that everytime she feels like she has to go, nothing comes out but air... shes been like this ever since we did it and that was like 4 days ago, she doesnt feel any pain, but she feels like her anus is loose... i was gentle, she had no problems when we did it,and when she does poop, it comes out small Reply to this Question
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reader, Mark25  +, writes (16 August 2008):
 The anus is only supposed to be a one way street so when it's penetrated from the other way the body can't really handle it. You've probably stretched the anal passage which is why your girlfriend feels loose. It's best to go and see a doctor to get it sorted. There's nothing wrong with anal sex but when trying to attempt it serious preparation needs to be taken. Ask your doctor about it or search around the internet. There's loads of articles about it. I hope if you attempt it again it goes better for you. Good luck.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 August 2008): I class anal sex as a an advanced sexual practice. However I'm aware that many people think it's not sex as it allows them to keep their virgina in a virgin untouched state. The anus, (your arse/bum) is not made for sexual activity. It contains lots of waste products and is not used to invasion by something long and hard. Many women try this out, but they rarely get pleasure because sexual desire in a woman is concentrated in the clitorus. However we are human, if something is there, we have to conquer, tame and experience it. Problems with Anal sex, needs to be refered to a doctor. This area is fragile, it's not supposed to be opened by anything else but a bit of shit ( a naturally occuring waste product) Her body has rejected you using it in this way.. no problem.. go to the doctor, explain what happened and he will be able to fix everything up and give you reassurance. Extreme sexual practices cause extreme sexaul consequences, but these don't matter. We are human, we have brains and we can work everything out for the best. You need to take her to a doctor, don't be ashamed, they are used to this kind of thing. They will tell you whats going on, and they will understand your need to spice up your sex life and give you advice to practise this safely. Take your girl to a doctor and your problems will go away.. Blessings and Good luck, see your doctor today...
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