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writes: Dear Cupid, I have posted before about this guy, but he's really confusing me. He flirts with me at school and sent me and e-mail called "Hey Sexy...."-but he's already said he only likes me as a friend.My mother told my grandparents how he flirts with me and they said it sounds like he likes me as more than a friend. Are they right?Sarah
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 March 2005): I think he does like you if he flirts with you. It is just hard for most guys to come out and say they like a girl.
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reader, Dr. Mike +, writes (26 March 2005):
Hey Sarah,Lucky you, trying to figure out what goes through the mind of a guy (I am a guy and I am still trying to figure that out...)It sounds like this guy does like you as a friend, but he may not be wanting to take your relationship to the next level. A lot of guys (especially in Middle School/ jr. High/ High School) are trying to figure out girls (just as you are him)... He thinks that it is cool to call you sexy (this is actually pretty common in a lot of schools, but not neccissarily appropriate... that is for you to decide). As for the flirting, again he is trying to figure out the game and understand girls. My guess is he is flirting with other girls than you, and this is natural. Him calling you sexy and flirting doesn't neccissarily mean anything.So now I am going to throw you some advice. Play it cool. If you really want to get together with him, ask him out as friends to go to a movie or something. Take it slowly, and if he wants to go out he will let you know. But it sounds like he likes you just as a friend for now.Good Luck & God Bless,Dr. Mike
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