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Gay or bi or neither?

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Question - (27 October 2008) 2 Answers - (Newest, 27 October 2008)
A male United States age 41-50, *ennyw writes:

I am 30 years old and gay! I have a friend who is 20 years old and claims he is totally straight. We live states apart but every time he visits which is a few times a year I always perform oral sex on him sometimes a couple of times a day. Yhe most he will do is give me a hand job! He always talks about girls and sex he has had with them, I don't know if I believe him though. My question is could he be gay and just in denial or is he just a horny devil? I like him a lot and want to push things further but am afraid that might push him away.

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A female reader, Dear Danielle United Kingdom +, writes (27 October 2008):

Dear Danielle agony aunthe could be bi and be in denial but like emilysanswers said he can close his eyes and think of who ever he wants he can be using you every time he sees you he gives you hand jobs that could be a hint hes telling he is bi but he could be just doing that to make you feel he isnt using you and so he gets more pleasure of what you do to him

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A female reader, Emilysanswers United Kingdom +, writes (27 October 2008):

He's getting blow jobs. That's all that matters to him.

If you are going to let him use you then he can close his eyes and think of who ever he wants.

I really don't think you are ever going to get what you want from him, but he may go further sexually just because it'll be sex on a plate and he can dump you afterwards.

Good Luck!! xx

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