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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:Dear Cupid,I been dating this guy for over a year and we're not boyfriend and girlfriend. We're friends with benefits but everything we do feels like we're in a real relationship. Pretty much we do everything a couple would do. I met most of his family, I even met his real dad who no one else has. He's cried in front of me n I've been to holiday dinners with him. I know his friends and they think we're going out but we're not. He says he doesn't want a gf right now and hasn't cheated on me or anything. He respects me and is nice and I think I'm falling in love with him. He makes me feel complete and we've even talked about having kids together. We agreed to wait for each other until another person comes into our lives. He is going off to college this year.Do you think I can trust him that he'll tell me if he meets another girl?Also, do you think he is worth waiting for or should I forget about him?
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 August 2009): You need to ask him straight out where you stand. Ask him honestly, if it's worth your time waiting for him. Tell him how much you're feeling for him. I've been in your situation so I know it's scary but it's better than putting your life on hold and wondering if it's actually going to be worth the wait. A year is a long time, especially at your age, I'd say you've given him enough time already. Lay your cards on the table and find out where the two of you stand in terms of a relationship. Good luck hun x
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 August 2009): I think you're way too young to put yourself in this kind of a relationship.
it's a no win relationship for a girl to be in. he just wants sex, with no committment to you...does that sound like a friend.
I am an adult....way older than you and I'm trying to get myself out of a relationship like that. quit while you're ahead....walk away...if he cares he will come for you..
you're worth so much more
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reader, Big Tex +, writes (8 August 2009):
At this point their is no reason on waiting because either he is Gay or not intrested in you after a year move on with your love life. Life is too short to be waiting on something like that.
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