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writes: My best friend needs some advice…Her parents are splitting up, and her Mum is moving to Newcastle (177 miles away from where she currently lives). So she can either stay with her Dad, or go with her Mum.She gets on better with her Mum than her Dad. And she gets on well with her older brothers who would both be staying here. Her Mum wants her to go to Newcastle with her, but her friends and the rest of her family want her to stay here.In Newcastle all she’d have is her Mum, as she’d be starting a whole new life, whereas here, she has her family, friends, a college she knows well, and her whole life is here.She wants opinions from people who aren’t biased, because her Mum wants her to go with her, but her friends and family want her to stay. So asking strangers is the best way to get an unbiased opinion.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 July 2012): Maybe you could suggest to her she stays here and finishes her studying and then applies for uni up in Newcastle or nearby and then goes to her mums for that. Her mum would find it hard without her but at least she can understand she needs to finish studying, possible option maybe??
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reader, aunt honesty +, writes (20 July 2012):
I know she is looking for healthy advice as she is stuck and does not know what to do. My guess is that she would ideally want to stay where she is, but she would also miss her mother. Off course everyone she asks would want her to stay where she is, but on the other hand her mother am sure is very important to her. This really is a decision she needs to make herself and the best thing you can do is her friend is tell her you will support her and be there for her no matter what she decides.
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