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writes:ok, so me and my friend got in a fight over something really small about a month ago. that same day she refused to talk to me while we were in school so i left her a note on her car tell her how sorry i was and that I wanted to make it up to her by hanging out that afternoon. later in the afternoon, after i had given her plenty of time to text me, she still hadnt so i texted her and asked if she had gotten my note... she said she had, but thats all she said about it. then I asked her if we were ok and then i flipped out on her before she got the chance to say anything. later that night she texted me and asked if i had cooled off, i just ignored it. so she was ready to apologize but i wasnt. the next day at school she was now mad at me for ignoring her when she was ready to talk about everything. I was ready that day but she just was acting mad and refused to talk to me. so for the past 4 weeks, once a week i have texted her and every time we get into more of a fight. its just gotten really big and I am ready for it to be over but she just keeps telling me shes too angry to meet up somewhere to talk it out and that im being pushy or mean. Im just trying to get this argument overwith... what should I do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 June 2009): I've resenly got into a fight like this today my friend got all mad over a stupid joke we have gotten into fights before and we have gotten though it but I'm not so sure this time but anyways I just try to calm my friend down and try not to fight if u two are really close friends it should be ok cuz you two know and I'm sure love each other so you should get through it but I don't garentty it just try to text her some jokes or something and try to stay calm it should work out
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 May 2009): It's hard to apologize to someone if you're still mad on the inside. If you really want it to be over and she doesn't want to meet up, just try to send her a text saying you are truly sorry. She's a good friend of yours and you want her to stay that way, you don't want a fight to ruin what you have. See if that helps.
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reader, Unonymous +, writes (31 May 2009):
 for the past 7 months i have been angry at a close friend of mine. this friend constantly holds grudges, and when she does, it stays in her head for a long time. but it didn't have to take 7 months. i did what you did and tried to talk to her. but it didn't work. it took me a week to get over it, but it might take your friend a while. don't talk to him/her for a month (if you can bare it) and don't have any contact. after a month make contact with the person. if you haven't made contact by then, it is time you make a new friend to hang out with while you and your friend are arguing, this way it will take your mind off of some things.hope this helped :)
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