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female
age
26-29,
*loveyhoo
writes:I've just started to fall for my ex again. I never did really love my ex, it was mroe fo a lust. It only lasted a couple of weeks anyway. But i see him every now and then, but i met him agein the other night. One of my best friends has just gone through a phase with him, they had a fling going on, even though he had a girlfriend on the time.the thing is with him, he's a player, he cheats! he has a girlfriend, and has a fling going on with a couple of other girls, anyway because of that my friend is getting all depressed about it. Now that i just met him again the other day, i realised that i'm starting too fall for him! I'm really starting to like him and im really confused. I know i shouldn't and hes a player but i cant help it! i keeep having dreams about him and everything! But what i need advice on is wether to tell my friend that im starting to like him or not. Shes not the normal kind of friend, as i would have told her by now. But the thing is with her she has some mood changes thing, and her moood constanly changes, and i know that if i were to tell her she would probably get all moody seeing as shes already depressed about him. I know i could maybe tell her, if it was just me and her outside school like whilst having a sleepover. but im confused on wether to tell her or not, as we also have loads of events together like going on holiday and that. what shall i do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 May 2010): why do you guys like someone who is going to play you both? lol you guys must be youngbim 19 i went through this..no dont tell her unless you hook up with him or something like that...honestly you need to get over him because youll be putting your friendship in danger which is more important than any guy trust me...hell be on top of the world and both of you will look stupid fighting over him ....dont do it ive been there
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reader, raiders  +, writes (6 May 2010):
 Do you think you only want him back because your friend wants him? Anyways you explained him as a player why would you want to be with something like that, come on. Have more love for yourself and give yourself time you will find a better boyfriend someone that will respect you, love you, and won't cheat on you. Stay focus and stay away he is no good.
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reader, aphexinfinite +, writes (5 May 2010):
 look you see how he depresses her do you honestly think hes gonna change that for you come on if being with a cheater is mroe than friendship then their is certainly something wrong come on girls get it togther a cheater will only break your heart not love it like it should be deserved . make a guy earn your respect and trust not go with him because you love or lust after him. if i were you i would stay away from him and not mention anything to your friend unl ess you dont value your friendship you should be their for her give her the support she needs and dont go out with a cheater or a player unless you wanna get your heart broken. good luck aphex
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