A
female
age
26-29,
anonymous
writes: My friend, let's call her M, has started dating this boy, let's call him D.Since she has been dating D, she has fallen out with her best-friend, A, and has basically ditched me and my other friends to hang out with another girl, just becuase she also has a boyfriend.It's like we're not cool enough to be her friends because we don't have boyfriends!It's horrible that she's ignoring her best-friend, because I know that A really misses M.I have tried to tell M what we think, but she just says "Oh you're just tryna break me and D up 'coz you're jealous"What do I do???? Please help!
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reader, Sakari2 +, writes (17 July 2012):
Leave her to it. Honestly my very close friend for many years suddenly got a boyfriend and for some people - not everyone - its like they can't see anything else. I also tried to tell her 'Hey lets go shopping' some girly time together and she would bring her boyfriend and I wanted some time just for friends, soon she started blaming me for trying to break them up etc when it was nothing of the sort.
She will most likely be caught up in her new haze, just wait it out hopefully if she sees that you and the rest of your friendship group are not interested by the fact that she has a boyfriend and a new social group she will see what she has cut herself off from.
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