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female
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51-59,
anonymous
writes:So I was snooping on my boyfriends computer and found pictures of several ex girlfriends sex pictures.I know he looks at them from time to time. This sucks because he has a good heart and we have been trying to get me pregnant for a couple of years. He has no kids,wants them but loves me enough to stay even if I can't have them. He never goes out to bars, etc rarely goes anywhere without me. So everything is fine except this.......What should I do??? Don't really want to admit the snooping.
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reader, QuirkLady +, writes (18 August 2010):
 Everything is still fine. I suggest you forget you ever saw them and stop snooping for no good reason. Focus on what you have today - a good man who loves you. Don't go looking for faults.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 August 2010): Relax, he probably forgot they were there. I got married last month, and not two weeks later when browsing files on my old computer I had in college I found pictures of my ex's. I didn't even know I had them, and honestly I felt a little embarrassed seeing them again, so I deleted them immediately.
When "snooping" on my wife's laptop I found pictures of her ex's. I didn't freak out, I just deleted them. Everyone has a past.
Don't automatically assume he is holding on to them because he wants to. Delete them and move on. If he throws a fit that they are gone, then you have a right to freak out and be angry.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 August 2010): To be honest I wouldn't worry. My advice: Delete the pictures and don't bring it up unless he does. These girls are in the past. From a guy's point of view it would be hard getting rid of these photos. Not because there are any emotions/feelings attached to them. These should be viewed as a record of conquests or trophies if you will. Of course this is based on the information you gave us. Have you ever talked about deleting photos of ex's before? If not you can't really blame him.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 August 2010): RED ALERT! RED ALERT! Great trouble coming your way!
1. Do NOT have a baby with him. Your child will thank you.
2. Dump him as fast as you can. The past will NEVER be past.
3. Choose a guy less attached to the past next time.
And listen to George Strait's "All my ex's live in Texas"
on YouTube to lift your mood. 8) You'll get over it.
Cassandra
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