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writes: Hi there,I am a 23 year old girl from the West Midlands.My boyfriend is 24 and I have found out recently that he has been spending loads of money on going to see male strippers - after finding receipts in his jacket. I also found photos of him hugging the male strippers too.Unfortunately I can't speak to him, because he's working overseas at the moment, how should I talk to him about it when I get back?I feel so upset, and even worse, the only time I'm happy is when I'm in work (I work for radio stations in Birmingham, Worcester and Coventry)I've started overeating out of unhappiness, and can't find a way out of this situation.Bekki
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reader, bodylotion +, writes (3 April 2006):
 Mabe he likes the company of men around him.Mabe he gets excited around them or mabe he was just planning a laugh with his mates.Another thing could be that,well not something a girlfreind wants to ear but mabe her could be gay and be having some sort of relatioship with one of these strippers.When he comes back comfront him about the pictures and see what he says.Mabe he will give you an answer you was hoping for or mabe not.But whatever he says you should try and come to terms with.Help him along and see what happens.I hope everything turns out the way you want it to.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 April 2006): I didn't go through his jacket, I just noticed his wallet had fell out of it as I was getting in my car.
Bekki
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 April 2006): There is no way out of this except asking him. There may be an explanation but either way you do need to know. There is nothing wrong with being bi-sexual, lying and deception is another matter. He may have hang-ups about people finding out. If he is bi-sexual perhaps he is in denial about it. It really is not possible to know unless you talk. I know you don't want to lose him, but you would not surely want a boyfriend who was casually seeing other men. Try not to go overboard until you know the facts but it does seem strange that he has never mentioned any of these visits to you. Why did you go through his jacket? You must have had a feeling that something was not right and your instinct could be correct. I would be very worried too but you won't know until you ask. Thinking of you, hope it is all OK.
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