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writes:I found out that my boyfriend may be going on holiday. He did not ak me or anything. Our relationship has been struggling.I called him pretending not to know and told him I was planning on going to the same place. He did not say anything.I called again a few days later and told him I am about to book and hinted I would like him to come. He told me to go ahead and book and let him know the dates.I text him the dates but he has not been back in touch. Is he avoiding it. He did sound warm. We have a child together and a 27 year friendship that has gotten cold although we are both still attractd to each other.Any advice welcomed please.
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reader, TasteofIndia  +, writes (3 July 2009):
 Your boyfriend neglects to tell you that he's going on a vacation?? And you have a child together? How serious is this relationship, how long has it been going on? I am assuming that since you have a child together, it's pretty serious - so how could he leave out his vacation plans out of conversation? Was he planning on just suddenly disappearing for a week?
Something is definitely going on in this relationship if he doesn't feel comfortable telling you his plans or inviting you along on his holidays. I think you need to be honest and tell him that you know he's going on holiday and that you're hurt he didn't ask you along. Maybe find out more of the details and see why he felt he needed to keep it a secret.
Good luck!!
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