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anonymous
writes:I think my be is cheating on me. I found an anal sex beginners kit and purple rabbit vibrator already used hidden under his bed after I had been away from his house for 6 weeks. During my absence he would visit me only at my house and I wasn't allowed to go his house. during the 4 months prior I have found lipstick (under the bed), bra's (under the bed), and shampoo and conditioner (under the sink) and he would throw away my toothbrushes.Is he cheating.
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reader, Honeypie  +, writes (14 March 2015):
 You ask:
*So now my new question is, should I contact the other woman and ask her if she is sleeping with my soon to be EX?*
Nope, just cut the contact. Does it matter if she is sleeping with him or not? She isn't paying for stuff for him for shits and grins, let's be honest here.
I'd give him the ring back though... Specially since it's not worth a penny.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 March 2015): Adding to everything I know from my dildo issue, today I found out my engagement ring is fake. Not even real gold or silver. Was told he probably paid 5 bucks for it.
And I also found out another women has been paying for stuff on her credit card.
So now my new question is, should I contact the other woman and ask her if she is sleeping with my soon to be EX?
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female
reader, Honeypie +, writes (13 March 2015):
Whatever is going on at your BF's house is something that DOESN'T include you.
Do you need more reason than that?
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female
reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (13 March 2015):
 If it was just the sex toys I would not jump to think cheating...but adding up the other things yeah I think that the other things
not being allowed to his place
throwing out your toothbrush
other women's under-garments
and you don't trust him.
OTOH... would the bra fit him? could he be cross dressing???
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 March 2015): Hard to tell for sure if he is cheating although you should definitively look into that. Alternatively, lipstick, bras, dildos etc maybe his toys in some sort of a transvestite sexual play.
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reader, CMMP +, writes (13 March 2015):
It doesn't sound good... What was his excuse?
Regarding the sex toys, maybe he uses them on himself?
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