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writes: I ended up having a "friends with benefits" type thing with a guy "friend" for nearly a year. He lives hours away so when he was in town we'd meet up etc. I ended up (stupidly) liking him, which was a shame because I found out that he was a complete man whore and not a very nice person.I am not a sl*t nor do I sleep around. He was the only guy. We hadn't seen each other in over 3 months and during that time (I didn't know) he got a girlfriend. I was angry and hurt that he didn't tell me because I'd been flirting with him during that time so I felt like an idiot. He said it was because he wanted to tell me in person. Which I don't believe.He's been with her now for nearly 2 years. During the first few months of his relationship he acted like a friend but then about 5 months into it he started flirting again and bringing up what we used to do in bed. I got angry and told him to quit it. He said he was only joking and that he wasn't going to cheat on her so I thought things were ok.We met up (as friends) when he was back but at the end of the night he leaned in to kiss me. I turned and walked away. Since then he's been saying he does want to be friends bit he "just can't say no" to me. He said he wants to sleep with me, that I'm "hot" (whatever) and doesn't seem to see anything wrong with it. What is he playing at?
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reader, Honeypie  +, writes (15 May 2011):
 He is doing his "man-whore" thing.. He's hoping you want to play along..
Unless you want to feel used and/or stupid down the line...
Honestly, cut the contact, forget his number, delete it, block it.. Think of him as one of "those" mistakes you make that you will never repeat in life.
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reader, Problem.helper +, writes (14 May 2011):
 Well I guess you are looking for more sofisticated answer than "to have sex with you" .
My advice: lose all contact with him
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