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writes:Hi, I found your site while looking on the net. My boyfriend and I are into each other and have been dating. I am 18 and he will soon turn 18. Both myself or my boyfriend has had sex. However, we both have said that we want to and want it to be special. We have talked about it and decided that it should be with someone special. We both consider the other special enough for it. We both think that we will do it. However, we know the legal age for sex is 18. So we are going to wait until then.For his 18th birthday I would like to give him the gift of sex. I think it will be a gift that I am likely to enjoy. What advice do you have about birthday sex? Is the bed the best location for first time birthday sex? How much time should we allow? Should we plan on from bedtime to morning? I want it to be a surprise for him. What advice do you have for making it a surprise? Would there be a way of letting him know about his gift without saying what I have planed for him? Do you have some advice for starting out? Do you have some advice for knowing when he is ready for intercourse? What position is the best for first time birthday sex? Could we use more than one? Thank You! Lindsey Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 February 2008): Hi Hunny
A romantic night for the two of you could be lots of candles and insence fill the room with flowers it is so relaxing and supprise him with a massage and just let the night flow love good music good conversation and a relaxing feeling with the one you love is a lovely night and im sure he will be happy with that, You can say I have some thing planned for your birthday so he knows something is happening, Make yourself feel sexy and beautiful dress in something that he will go WOW!!!! And I personally feel that the bedroom has to be the first romantic time thats just my veiw hunny.. And well done you for waiting untill the right moment, remember condoms safe sex always and most of all sweetheart have a wonderfull time and enjoy this time you have together and you will know if he is ready it will all come naturally love, You have done the right thing by talking about it and not just jumping into bed so my love it can only be something special..YOU TAKE CARE OF EACH OTHER WITH LOVE N HUGS MANDY XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX
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