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writes:Hello. I was always told that flirting should be fun but with this woman at work the flirting is hurting. Does this mean I have feelings for her? Is it a bad sign to have feelings for someone when we have not even been on a date together? Am I hurting because I am coming up against her defences? If she was going to let me into her life then I guess her defences would be down and I would feel no pain. Is this just a crush, therefore? Anyone else felt this pain? David De-Angelo would call this 'wussy' behaviour. He does not seem to understand that men can fall in love without actually having had sex with a woman. He is all about trying to get men to sleep with as many women as possible and then making a short-list of women from there for a future relationship. Is it so wrong to just focus on one woman at a time, David? Thoughts welcome from any normal people out there! Many thanks.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 April 2009): The feeling of falling for someone can create a lot of anxiety and sometimes depression in some people. You probably have a lot of endorphines and hormones running rampant in your system and that may be causing these pains. I often feel anxiety, elation, and get insomnia when I have it bad for someone! Ask her out, get to know her.
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reader, ArmyMedic +, writes (18 April 2009):
 What pain are you feeling is it a dull ache, sharp stabbing? where exactly is this pain and does it move anywhere (radiate)? Are there any other symptoms associated with this pain (shortness of breath, pins and needles etc)?
I think if this pain continues you should seek medical advice immediately!
David De-Angelo or Eben W. Pagan is a self-made dating adviser and a bit of a knob. I really won't worry about his advise.
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (18 April 2009):
Who the hell is David De Angelo?
He sounds like a knob.
If you have feelings for this woman then ask her out.
Only you know if you have a crush on her or not.
It could be that you just don't like flirting, or that you have a heart condition and all the excitement is bringing on an angina attack.
Go and have a bit of a think in a quiet room, and if you do decide you like her then ask her out.
Good Luck!! xx
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