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writes:Heya, I'm 16 and I'm going to have sex with my bf for the very first time!!! *squeals with happiness*As you can probably tell, I am *ahem* more than acceptable about this, and my bf is so lovely and sweet and willing to wait for me although I've assured him I want to. And believe you me, I WANT TO. :DAnyway, my boyfriend is a almost a year older than me and his penis is of a little larger than average size and I was wondering whether this will cause any problems.And I'm fairly certain he can please me since he has fingered me a couple of times before but BOTH TIMES we had to cut it short since we have a time limit on out time together to avoid being caught by parents in my room. (Well, I want to do it somewhere comfy and at home but not get caught out) So anyway, I'm curious; what does an orgasm feel like and will I have one? I know this is a difficult question to answer but I would appreciate any and all attempts.I know it will be my first time but will I have one? My friends have had sex and they said it's painful but my hymen has already broken because of a very long bike ride (don't ask) so will this make it easier??Thanks for listening to my over-excited teenage babble!xxx :D
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reader, ForeverDawn  +, writes (23 September 2009):
 Every girl is different but don't fully expect to have an orgasm on your first time is not about the hymen is about the size of the opening and you mentioned your Bf has a large penis, the finger is very different from the actual thing is your first time just relax and take it easy don't have such high expections for your first time!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 September 2009): I'm glad that you are excited about this and everything, and that he was willing to wait for you to be ready also. An orgasm is hard to explain, but if you look up other questions on here as to what one is that'd be a good way to get more details on it. You'll know if you have one, that's about all I can say. There's a good article on here about when you're thinking about losing your virginity, I hope someone posts a link, or you can search for it. But it's still something to consider before you have sex, even if you have before, it still gives good information.
If all you two have done is finger a couple times, I think you may want to do more than that before having sex. Get familar with your body and get him familiar too so that it goes smoothly and is enjoyable. See if you can orgasm from him fingering you or anything too, that way you'll know what it's like anyway. Not many girls can orgasm from pentration alone, so it still may not happen if you have sex. Especially your first time since it will probably be painful.
Chances are you may not orgasm on your first time having sex, make sure that you do a lot of foreplay (fingering, oral, etc) to get ready to have sex, and make sure you're relaxed, otherwise it will be more painful even. It may make it easier that your hymen has been broken, but it will still probably be somewhat painful. Some girls have a lot of pain, some have none, no way to really say.
I hope this helps some, I know it didn't answer everything, I'm sorry. If you need more advice feel free to message me whenever and I'll answer. Good luck, and just take things slow and it should be fine, and for goodness sake, use protection :).
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