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writes: I know this sounds like a stupid question but, when you first have sex, does it hurt at all? And when you get pregnant, how painful is it and what are the chances that it won't all the go the way you expect it to? Thanks! Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 October 2005): Sex can hurt..especially if you are not completely relaxed and ready for it..actually getting pregnant doesnt hurt but labour does dont be worrying about pregnancy so early on but make sure you do take the precautions to stop any unwanted pregnancy from happening.
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reader, sigga dögg +, writes (26 October 2005):
Please just use protection!!
If you have ever seen a porn movie, bare in mind that what is going on there is not reality of first time sex.
It will hurt.
He will have to be gentle. Make sure you are aroused and ask him to go slow. If your are nervous, tell him, communication is key here; if anything hurts or feels good, tell him.
Just be true to yourself and if you are not ready for sex or want to stop, that is ok too, this is your body and your choice.
Oh and getting pregnant doesnt hurt, semen running down your leg is annoying but all of that can be prevented if he uses a CONDOM....
I have heard that giving birth hurts...
Be safe and enjoy!
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reader, pops +, writes (26 October 2005):
Yes, first time sex can hurt. No, getting pregnant rarely involves pain. Pregnancy happens as a biological fact when a male's sperm fertilizes a females egg. This takes place in her body after sex- as much as two days later. Yes, there is a chance that "It won't all go the way you expect it to.". Now if you will please define " It " in that sentence, I might really know what you are asking about.
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