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First time humilating sex leads to a bruised ego and erection issues.

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Question - (9 February 2009) 0 Answers - (Newest, )
A male Cyprus age 30-35, *ice writes:

Ok So i am 16 years old

i tried to have sex with a girl at the beach we were making out and i was really hard(never had any erection problems) it was my first time and when we took off our clothes and i got inside her i didnt quite enjoyed..i expected it to be more pleasant. i started to say in my mind "damn when are we going to finish" and it was like the 3-4 minutes of intercourse.

anyway after all these thoughts i got soft (it was winter and we were next to the beach with no clothes) anyway i got soft and i couldnt get back inside her again.

i think i have the wrong idea about what sex is. i thought it would be nice but it turned out the other way.

anyway except the humiliating experience i had after that i cant get hard as i used to..even when i masturbate or watch porn..i just dont feel am hard enough..maybe i am but maybe am not..i really dont know

sometimes i can cum while not fully erect sometimes when am at the final hardness i can still like bend it in half..hows that possible..is that wrong?

anyway its really frustrating and it hurts my ego

maybe its my mind that plays these games but maybe not?

i dont want to visit a doctor its embarrassing not coz of the doctor ..but people will find out and it will kill me.

in the mornings i get like hard but then i touch it and in my mind i say "am i hard enough" and suddenly i start to loose the hardness.

Whats wrong with me

people please help me :(

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