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writes:Me and my boyfriend, have done everything in the bedroom, and we're both curious and we would like to try anal. Im very nervous about this, i was woundering if anal sex is painful and if so how painful? and does it get easier through time? and also anytips on how to make it more pleasurable and less sore for the first time? thanks
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 August 2009): Why anal? I think it,s nasty.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 August 2009): You need to take it SLOW, and so does he. As much as you might be in a 'do me hard, fast, now' mood, it just can't work that way instantly, but with plenty of practise, time, patience and understanding, the sky's the limit!
Don't go there unless you're 200% on fire with lust, and when you do, use LOTS of lubricant and DON'T go without a condom. Be patient, don't rush, breathe in and out deeply, take your time and go SLOWLY in and out - whatever you do, DON'T let him just ram straight in. You can go faster as and when you feel more comfortable.
The best position starting out is with him sitting on the bed while you gently lower yourself onto him. (If he's much bigger and stronger than you, you can take this to a standing position). If you feel any pain, stop, pull back a little, and adjust the angle.
Once he's inside you, don't stay still: move up and down on his cock. By now, if he's doing it right, you'll likely be in heaven - he'll know from your noises and facial expressions. But you have to go at your own pace, it isn't as if he can just stick it in and pump away. TALK and let him know, whether with words or other verbal communication, whether it's going good. Let him know what's going on in your body, he needs to know if you're enjoying it and wanting more.
Hope this helps, have fun!
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 August 2009): If you are definitely happy with going through with anal then sure thing and go ahead. In my experience, it is no where as near as pleasurable as normal sex and its just the hype that its anal that makes us want to try...its much more nicer for the guy as its tighter, etc. Make sure he wears a condom! he could catch something yucky and trust me the aftermath of it without is not something wished for! Advice is to make sure your way is clear - avoids embarrassment! Use lube and relax completely. maybe use fingers to loosen things up a little and then go in. entry may feel strange and do not force anything because you could rip and then you'll be uncomfortable for a week or 2! it gets better with movement...just lots of lube as there’s no juices made down there. hope that helps!
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 August 2009): My girlfriend says it is painful, but more enjoyable...It's possibly a personal opinion thing though.As for making it less sore, lubrication is always a good idea.
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