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writes:Hi,Here's the thing. About 3 years ago I realised I was bisexual. I've had one relationship since then with a girl, but it was long distance and although I really felt for the girl, it didn't work. Before this i'd always dated boys, perhaps because I wanted to or because I felt Ii had to. I'm not sure.Anyway, this September I started at college. I love it. I find it a lot less restricting than school. I feel I can be myself, and i'm surrounded by these new, exciting people. I've started to feel that i want to experience things with a girl, both sexually and emotionally. As i say, college is full of new people, and for the first time, as stupid as it sounds, i'm surrounded by people who are gay, and quite comfortable with being so. I thought this was maybe a good opportunity to try things, even though all of the lesbians are stereotypical, masculine lesbians. They kind of intimidate me, and some of them are a bit older than me. Do you think i should try and be brave and get to know some of these people? I don't really have a clue how to play it or how to act; they're all very confident. Thanks.. sorry for the length of that question. Any advice on this kind of thing would be a help.Unknown x
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reader, howcomehoney  +, writes (4 December 2008):
 Start by getting to know ONE of them. It's hard to jump straight into the middle of a group of people. So get to know one or two girls, and they will introduce you, show you around, you'll find out all the gay bars and places to go, and you will meet a lot of people. And maybe among those people you will meet a girl you like. And there you are. Good luck!
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