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Fingering doesn't turn me on. Am I doing it wrong?

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Question - (17 July 2011) 2 Answers - (Newest, 26 July 2011)
A female United Kingdom age 26-29, anonymous writes:

Hey there!

So, I've done minor things with a previous boyfriend of mine who I was with for over a year but whenever he fingered me it didnt feel good at all? Since I've tried to finger myself on my own to experiment as other people say but it just feels like theres something up me and it doesnt turn me on. However, when its being rubbed I can reach an orgasm. It's really awkward with my boyfriend at the moment because he wants to try it but I'm scared I would have to pretend to like it etc.

It would really help if you could give me some advice/tips on how or if it will feel good? If I am doing it wrong.

Thank you x

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A reader, anonymous, writes (26 July 2011):

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Thankyou guys, really helped. Since we have given it a go and it felt a lot better when he did it. I didn't have an orgasm or anything but it was better than the previous times. I think we'll stick to what we know works! Thanks x

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A female reader, annie-d United Kingdom +, writes (21 July 2011):

i am exactly the same to you, when i finger myself i feel nmothing but rubbing myself feels good. personally when my boyfriend fingered me it felt amazing which i was suprised about seeing as it doesn't pleasure me when i do it. it's better when it's fast because it taps you when he's also inside you which works for me :)

if you know what you like, tell him. for most boys it's a turn on and stops them worrying what to do. just talk to him about it

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